I'm 26, and the man I'm dating is PERFECT FOR ME IN EVERY WAY....EXCEPT...his financial situation. I have a modest savings, a decent monthly salary, ($5000--I know, not that great, but better than nothing--for emergencies) and 15 grand in my 401 K (I've only been out of college for a few years.) He's 30, he lives from paycheck to paycheck and has no retirement/401 K/savings etc. A couple things: We are in love and have talked about moving in together, but we have agreed we should wait a year, until he is more financially stable. At this point, I'm cutting him some slack, bc he has been single for a while, and only has had to think of himself. I am not a gold-digger, but I am realistic. I pay for stuff more than half the time. I devote a lot of time, love, energy, etc to this relationship, in which, at this point, I am very happy. I never wanted to be with a man who is less financially stable
I just want to know if any females have been in this situation, and how things have worked ou
2007-03-10
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