just wondering how many here stayed with the person who cheated on them?
how are things going? did spouse really change or is he/she back to old ways?? if you gave more than once chance why?
ive decided to stay and try to make things work. i hate divorce and this is my second marraige. the first one i divorced no question. but i have 2 small babies with this man, i love him so much, we have 6 years together where i know for sure he never cheated on me, then this january he had to screw that up and slept 4 random times with the same girl. Each times were just quickies and the ***** is old fat and ugly (her 40 me 26 him 25) cause i think it would have been harder on me if this had been an affair type thing with i luv yas being said and her being a young cute thing. he confessed everything to me right after it happened that last time cause he said it was eating him up, and immediately changed his ways after confessing, i just hope it lasts. I think we can do the fresh start since hubby is so willing to change. in fact it was his idea to move, ect. we have since moved, he has a new job, changed his cell. dh and i will go to church and marriage counseling and he is no longer allowed to go out except to work unless i go to. which right now aint a big deal since he has no friends where we moved to. i wont trust him not a bit and will be calling and checking up on his sorry *** on a daily basis. i let him now loud n clear that if i ever decide to trust him again and let him go out by himself to not be surprised if i have him tailed. (lol) and that if he ever cheats on me again he might as well kiss his kids goodbye (he sure aint kissing me) and he can get out. i mean this.
2007-03-08
23:12:58
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maylene1852
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Marriage & Divorce