just wondering how many here stayed with the person who cheated on them?
how are things going? did spouse really change or is he/she back to old ways?? if you gave more than once chance why?
ive decided to stay and try to make things work. i hate divorce and this is my second marraige. the first one i divorced no question. but i have 2 small babies with this man, i love him so much, we have 6 years together where i know for sure he never cheated on me, then this january he had to screw that up and slept 4 random times with the same girl. Each times were just quickies and the ***** is old fat and ugly (her 40 me 26 him 25) cause i think it would have been harder on me if this had been an affair type thing with i luv yas being said and her being a young cute thing. he confessed everything to me right after it happened that last time cause he said it was eating him up, and immediately changed his ways after confessing, i just hope it lasts. I think we can do the fresh start since hubby is so willing to change. in fact it was his idea to move, ect. we have since moved, he has a new job, changed his cell. dh and i will go to church and marriage counseling and he is no longer allowed to go out except to work unless i go to. which right now aint a big deal since he has no friends where we moved to. i wont trust him not a bit and will be calling and checking up on his sorry *** on a daily basis. i let him now loud n clear that if i ever decide to trust him again and let him go out by himself to not be surprised if i have him tailed. (lol) and that if he ever cheats on me again he might as well kiss his kids goodbye (he sure aint kissing me) and he can get out. i mean this.
2007-03-08 23:12:58 · 3 answers · asked by maylene1852 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your 26 and he went after a fat and ugly 40 y/o. I think you need to get him some glasses! Listen, if you're half as beautiful as you are literate, then he is nuts! I get so annoyed at the sorry excuse for intelligence on this site sometimes. The surprising thing is, you're also dedicated to working out your differences instead of packing up and leaving. I mean my first advice for victims of cheaters is to divorce their buns and really stick it to them in court. Rarely, very rarely do we find an individual that has the stamina to get in there for one more round. Kudos to you! Your kids are bound to turn out perfect! I'm impressed!
2007-03-09 16:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say once a cheater always a cheater. If he had no respect for you the first time what makes you think he will now? You are always going to be wondering if he's cheating. You will go through his wallet while he's sleeping, look through his personal items to find anything that says he's cheating. I personally could not live like that.
2007-03-09 10:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump
2007-03-10 12:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋