I've been with my husband for 9yrs. for the first 6, his ex had custody of the (2 daughters) children. She took us to court every 6mos. for support increases. 5yrs. ago his oldest daughter wanted to live with us. 4yrs. we've had custody of his children, now 17 & 11. And for the past 3yrs. we've been in court every 6-8 mos. for his ex trying to get the kids back. We've had children services called on us 4 times in almost 2 yrs. (all unfounded) His children report every detail that goes on in our home, we have no privacy, his ex has a 5" thick notebook full of our lives that the children have reported. His children bad mouth my husband & me constantly, claim verbal & physical abuse, cause they want to move back to mom. I can't tolerate the emotional abuse his children & ex are dishing out. 9 yrs. of Hell! I want to leave, but I love my husband. It's not getting better, it's getting worse! Do I leave this "abusive" marriage? I have 3 kids of my own to think about. Please help!
2007-03-01
01:38:50
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DAWN D
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Marriage & Divorce