A few days ago I posted a problem about my youngest cousin and some serious stress she'd been under,the problem was two-fold the first part was her school which i've stepped in on.The second part apparently is me.My job means that I have to travel alot (I work at sea) and i'm rarely at home for more than 3 weeks,but I have a very close bond with my family,especially my youngest cousin.According to her mother her depressive traumatised state reoccurs everytime I leave.To me this is a real problem,I keep in contact as much as possible while i'm away but the knowledge that I am the cause of her problems tears me up inside,especially when she's normally so happy.I really don't know what to do,can anyone suggest a way I might help her?
School problems I can handle but I can't fix what's inside her head.
2007-02-27
01:27:27
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