my husband had an affair only after 2 mths we were married, i didn't find out until after about 10 mths into it. he got caught i started checking the cellphone bills, he was calling her everyday all hours of night sometimes 30 times a day,he says they only had sex 3 times bs.he was looking for no commitment just sex bs,it sounds to me there was more than just sex also emotions, how could he love me and knew this would devastate me, there were no signs he was cheating she found out he was married about 3 mths into it didn't care she called him just as much but he pursued her from the day he met her he started calling everyday until they had sex only after talking for a week he says he tried to tell her he couldn't do this anymore after a period of time she told him you are not going to quit calling me or seeing me, sounds to me they were both committed to each other alot more than just sex.maybe thats why i thought we were so happy it was her making him happy it's over now but i am sic
2007-02-24
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