My boyfriend drinks a lot. He says his job is stressful and it helps take the edge off. He spends most of his free time with me but we only make love once a month. We see each other about twice a week but when I try to seduce him, I get rejected. He swears there’s no one else. Based on the time he has available and the time he spends with me, I believe him. I'm not sure what to do about this. It's frustrating for me. Could the drinking and stress diminish his sexual drive? His parents, sister and her 2 kids live with him. He's financially responsible for them and anything that goes wrong with the house and the cars. I want to understand him but what about me? I know he cares for me but what is there for me w/his stress, family situation and now the sexual problem, I wonder if I'm holding on to something that I should just let go and move on. He lacks affection but that's just his character and the way he was brought up. That's also a problem for me because I'm very affectionate. I'm not needy but I need to feel the love sometimes. We seem to get along very well and talk for hours. What do I do, what kind of future do I have with him with his current living situation and lack of sexual drive?
2007-02-22
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