It's not the first time either. For years he has neglected to get me ANYTHING on holidays, even my birthday and christmas.
When he sees I'm hurt he's all like, "I'm such a schmuck" or whatever and then just waits for me to get over it.
I never asked for or wanted anything fancy...even just a card would be nice. In the past I have cried, gotten mad, and everything. This time I just said nothing and later I was crying to myself. There was nothing he could say. I just didn't understand it. I don't ask for much from him ever. A note, a thought, a kind word. Anything.
What can I say or do? I know guys aren't into all of that. But it means something to me, and he knows it.
I didn't get him a gift, but I had a fabulous dinner, little valentine cups with handmade treats in it, and a balloon centerpiece. Just thoughtful stuff.
Any advice?
2007-02-15
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♦♦pixiechix♦♦
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Marriage & Divorce