We have been married for almost 3 and a half years now. We have had some serious problems in the past(no one has cheated), yet have managed to stay together despite that. He is in the military and is gone quite a bit. We argue ALL the time, and seems to have a great deal of anger and resentment towards one another. He has mentioned divorce many times, yet after we both calm down he apologizes and says he did not mean it. It still hurts me though, and we almost did seperate once last year. I had been married before I married my husband, and he made a really hurtful comment to me the other day about why he thought my "other" marriage ended. We frequently talk rudely to one another when we are arguing. He curses and I yell. We both know that the other person hates this! We are NOT young. I am 34 and he is 28. It just seems like we have no patience for one another. I know the seperations don't help with the military, but I am just at a complete loss here as to what to think or do!
2007-02-11
04:51:27
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Dolphin73
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Marriage & Divorce