my husband and I have been together for about 6 years & we have a daughter together.
sometimes he will have the job for us to get by, pay bills, etc. when I don't have a job or any money.
he gets enough to get us by. paycheck to paycheck (for now).
but anyway my problem is that I have a hard time "spending" his money.
For example, I feel that I do not have the right to use it because I am not the one that is working for that money.
I think I feel that it is his money to do with whatever he pleases and if he intends to spend it on us than so be it. I mean he does buy the things we need but when he tries to give me money for other stuff I have a hard time saying yes.
Is there something wrong with this? or is there a way to get over it?
When I was the one with the job and he didnt have a job I would surely let him use money if he needed it to do with whatever he wanted. and it is the same way now that he is the one with a job but I think there is something wrong here, do you?
2007-02-07
01:46:55
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lady_luv
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