I'm 21. Three years ago I met this guy. We hit it off instantly, sharing similar interests and style of humor. A few months down the track he suggested 'us' as a couple. Afraid it would ruin our friendship, I gently said no. Plus I didn't think either of us were mature enough at the time. He seemed too serious, too early. Things were a little awkward for awhile, but we are good friends again now.
Must admit sometimes I have feelings for him (although it could just be loneliness... i've always been single), and other times I'm pretty sure that he should stay in the friend category. Many people have assumed we're going out (just because we hang out) and are usually surprised to find out that we're not. Some people think we're perfectly suited for each other. But I'm confused. He seems more like a friend or a brother to me - I like hanging with him but I'm afraid it wouldn't work if things were to get serious.
I'm interested to hear stories from ppl who've been in a similar situation..
2007-02-06
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