So at the moment there are three people who are in love with me and I am inlove with them all - But I am stuck, I dont know who to choose, I have been with the one for almost eight months and dont know if I should back out and choose one of the others?.. Please can anyone advice. All three are very very dear to me and I dont want to loose any of them. I dont know wich way to go and what to do about all this. My heart is really aching and my head is in a spin. I cant sleep at night, because of all the thoughts. Any advice would help. Thank you
2007-02-06 23:57:20 · 4 answers · asked by draycoles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would like to add that I have not cheated on any of them, not even the one I have been with for 8 months, I am just lost! I want to thank the guys for these nice answers so far! I will try my best to calm down for now and think logical about this.
2007-02-07 01:20:11 · update #1
ok....so you have been with one for about 8 months now and u love this person alot... ok i understand that...so i think wat u should do is tell the other ones that if they love u with all their heart that they should be able to wait for you no matter how long it takes...because sometimes love mean to wait..
2007-02-07 00:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Katlyn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not a huge problem...
just focus what u need which type of guys u like..
make a list and compare between them and the best mark u can be with him..
go to your mind and heart and think about the future.. not just to spend time and play in the feelings...
just calm down see what is the best who will make u happy, who will care about u.. who loves u as who u are not who u will be...
good luck u will pass it
2007-02-07 00:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to walk away from all of them
you have built all your relationships on lies
to love someone you have to want them and only that one person not be cheating around
you are going to hurt 3 ppl who you have not told the truth to
i say tell them all GOOD BYE
tell them you have lied and cheated and i think you need to be alone for awhile and grow up
2007-02-07 00:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go along with the three and enjoy what you cannot with one
2007-02-07 00:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋