I have been married for 7 yrs & have 3 very young children. My husband is not abusive & is a very good father. However, I am not in love with him anymore. This is not the first time I have felt this way in the marriage. Off & on throughout the years I struggled with feelings of whether or not to stay, because I wasn't sure if the feelings were what they should be. We have been to counceling (although honestly we didn't go long because of financial reasons). Now after several things have happened in the past few years (where he was not there for me when I really needed him) that have pushed him away from me mentally & physically, I feel that no matter how much counceling I went to, that the feelings are no longer there & I can't work on the marriage anymore. I am not in love & as much as I wish I was because of our children....we both deserve to be with someone & completely 100% loved. My family does not understand this & feels that it should be worked on. How do I make them?
2007-02-05
00:27:18
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Marriage & Divorce