Whether day to day workings are predecided by the supreme power or we are doing as per the situation arises?

Question

We have lost 9months baby before the delivery, now we are confuse whether it had happend as per desire of the almighty or because of our ignorance.These type of happenings put us in dillema about the existence of almighty that why his desires are so negative that creates also bomb blasts,sunami,earth quakes and so on to make hurricane in human life.

Answer 1

First I feel sorry for U Couple.

We people never knows what is going to happen in the future but god knows what is the future and todays death or birth is decided based on the future only by the god. Never dobut GOD what ever the god did for U may be for the goodness of U & U will come to know in the future about this.

Those things like the Tsunami, Earth quake its all the thing done by the god to equlize the power of the nature everywhere. 3

The bomb blast is also what is the great findings of the human being to eat the human being its what the gods answer for the mans effort to destroy the nature.

Answer 2

First, sorry about the loss of your unborn baby! There need be no confusion as there must be a medical or scientific explanation for that event. To say that something is predecided is an excuse for not attempting to understand the reason behind every event or action which indeed has its own reaction too!

Answer 3

Things do happen in life that are beyond human control. We may never know why bad things happen to innocent people.
Confusion is a normal reaction in such cases. It is even OK to get angry with God in such situations.
But there is future, what you may receive can be better than what you have lost.
Have a positive attitude towards like and get on with life.

Answer 4

God decrees our life to be godly; the learning and practice to attain this sublime purpose is the job of each individual with his own capacities throuh his own circumstances. The abortive baby is evidently more godly than the lusty centenarian. No two people think and act the same way.

Answer 5

Sometimes,it's said the so called enlighted ones come to a mother's womb coz of karma,so why are u worrying? Every action has so many aspects that can't be answered by us . Nature will give something best than what U expect.

Answer 6

First, I give you my deepest respect and hope that someday your pain will lessen.

I do not believe that God sticks his fingers into our business. I do believe that He is there around us and can guide us to the best response to things, but there is so much karm and dharm involved in life that there are many realities beyond our control and beyond which God probably feels would harm us in the long run if He were to change them.

I know that such a thing is horrible to hear in reference to losing your baby, and no cheap answers as to "this" or "why" could ever suffice--nor should they, because there is just no excuse for such a tragic event and the amount of pain it gives you, so details of how or why are just not part of the equation, and you should not try to fit them in because they are beneath your dignity and your reality.

There is, obviously, though, a lot of influence from karm and dharm in life, and though karm cannot be changed by us, how we respond to it can be, and that is where the door to dharm opens up. I have been through terrifying, long-term anguish and suffering I would not wish on the worst war criminal, but by my unending efforts around them and to see through them to a deeper reality (not that I allow myself to think that that is why they were given to me to suffer through), I do now see the deeper reality and am at times quite grateful for the suffering which pushed me in the direction to do such searching.

Is my experience yours? No. Is your experience mine? No. To trade them or pretend to would be a sin against both of us, so you must not take my experiences as what you should do--that decsion must only come from your hearts and not because I suggested it.

However, let this pain bring you closer together and not tear you apart. You are already dealing with immense pain--why add to it?

Talk about it as often as you can--and with professionals that do listen and not with relatives or friends who indicate that they cannot respond to you wiht empathy and concern. The more you talk, the more the pain will grow over and you will gain wisdom from it.

May both of you be blessed many times over, and may your pain diminish in time but never be forgotten.

Much love,

Shivakumar

Answer 7

God the almighty has given us human all powers other than birth and death.

Answer 8

This is all the Bible says about predestination.

Ephesians 1:3-14;

3 ¶ Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ:
4 just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:
5 having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will,
6 to the praise of the glory of His grace, wherein He made us accepted in the Beloved.
7 in Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace;
8 which He made to abound toward us in all wisdom and prudence;
9 having made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His good pleasure which He purposed in Himself:
10 that in the dispensation of the fulness of times He might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven, and which are on earth - in Him.
11 In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who worketh all things after the counsel of His own will:
12 that we who first trusted in Christ should be to the praise of His glory.
13 In him ye also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also, having believed, you were sealed with the holy Spirit of promise,
14 who is the guarantee of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, to the praise of His glory.

It is only predestined that we be sons of God.
Everything else is up to us, however we have His promise that whatever we earnestly ask in Jesus' name will be granted to us.

grace2u

Answer 9

I do pray that God will support you in this time of grief. God is light and there is no darkness in Him at all. God do not cause anything bad to happen, I do want to reassure you of this. Do not lose faith in GOD because of this. I do pray that He will guide you and send you some support in this time of sorrow

Answer 10

Birth, death, marriage, children, fame and defamation are predetermined. We cannot control these things. Rest everything is in our hands to strive and do.