how do u deall with being pregnant at 13 and how do u tell me mom?

Answer 1

when you choose to do adult things, you can have adult problems. you chose to be an adult, do the adult thing and face the music and tell your mother. a little too late to try to be a little kid again. i hope you just learned a valuable lesson. your a kid who's going to have a kid. I feel most sorry for your mother who's stuck raising you and your kid.

Answer 2

You are in a tough spot, all right. First, you need to talk to your mom privately. Make it very clear that you KNOW you made a mistake, and you are asking for her help to find a solution. You have basically 3 options: 1) Keep the baby and your family help you raise him/her. 2) Give the baby up for adoption. 3) Have an abortion.

All of these options have challenges. Some choices will have worse consequences than others. Please involve your mother or another adult you trust in the decision process. THINK about this decision carefully. And next time you are with a boy, THINK before you uncross your legs.

If you choose to keep the baby or give up for adoption, please put health at the top of your priority list. See a doctor asap, eat healthy foods, avoid toxic chemicals/inhalants/smoke, etc.

Good luck, sweetie - you are gonna need all the help you can get.

Answer 3

I was pregnant at 12, 14, and now at 15. I have two wonderful children and another on the way...and I am only 15. It is hard to raise a child, but it will just become part of your daily life. My mom hasn't spoken to me in 3 years, since my daughter was born, and she doesn't know about the other two. I live with my boyfriend and his parents because they are very supportive of us. Just tell her...no matter what she says, just deal with it. Stay strong and keep your chin up, because no matter what your mom says, it is your decision and your life.

Answer 4

Wow 13 year olds have no business getting pregnant let alone having sex!!! What were you thinking? You have to tell your mother ASAP so you can get the proper medical attention you and the baby will need, it could be a high risk for you do to your age and your body not fully being developed.

Answer 5

Well I think you just have to tell her and whatever you do dont have an abortion carry it full term and give the baby up for adoption...And maybe next you should be a little more careful about the actions you make next time...Being 13 years old you shouldnt be prenant anyways you should be playing games or out hanging out with your friends doing girl stuff not guys...Dont hide this from your mother just let her know its better to tell the truth than to hide something!!!GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 6

WOW if ur talking bout u the ni dk what to do..depends how ur mom is if she is easy going and doesn't reslly care what u do then just say mom i havn't been feeling well and well i think i might b pregnant by mistake a HUGE mistak..............but if she cares a lot and moitors everything u do then it will b hard just get her to take u tp the dosctor or sit her down and try to explain it to her in a come manneer

Answer 7

Sorry but I was not in that kind of situation at 13, but I can tell you you should sit your mom down and be honest with her and tell her that you are pregnant. It does not matter how you say it, she will be upset about it. and the two of you can figure out what to do. but you have to tell her before she finds out another way, and she might be a little madder about that. good luck.

Answer 8

oh man , i wish you would not have become pregnant at this time in age ! Talk to a counselor at school and definately to your mom ! Best to have a private conversation without the rest of the family . Tell her that you suspect that you are pregnant and that you need her help . And also definatly you need to talk to the parents of that boy that got you pregnant ,you can do this with your mother togehter

good luck to you

Answer 9

its going to be hard . as at 13 a little more than a child yourself (or who ever is 13 and pregnant) just tell mom , if there is an aunt or someone your close to in your family have them there also granted mom is going to be upset that's putting it lightly .. be prepared to name the father of your unborn child and being asked his age and be prepared for his family to be told also there are many things that are going to have to be worked out ..Good luck but one thing is certain continue your education there are programs available for teens who are pregnant so you can continue your education

Answer 10

you could write them a note somethin like this

dear mom&dad,
i know that you love me and want the best for me. i didnt plan this, but im pregnant. you might be disappointed and worried-i am to- but what i need from you most now is your support so i can make good decisions and avoid putting my health at risk. please be there for me.
love_______

sry ive never been 13 years old and pregnant, ive never been pregnant at all, so i dont know what you are going through, be more responsible next time.

bestOfluck!

Answer 11

well u need to make sure u dont wait to long to tell ur mom cause she needs to take u to the doc to see how far along u are and to get the proper care so just set her down and tell her yeah she'll probly be mad and yell but then shell come around thats how my mom was u are a little younger than i was but if u need someone to talk to email me at [e-mail]