Hi, can you help? Please don't say councling, because my husband never goes to them. Married for 18 months, had sex maybe just for 12 times, me not having an orgasm, becasue he doesn't care that I have needs too, so he doesn't do foreplay, talking dirty in bed, position changing, kissing passionately, touching me, nothing, all those 12 times, I initiated it with giving him all the pleasure, which was even after a very frustrating complaint from me and threatening to leave him if he doesn't have sex with me. I have tried all the ways possible, tried to seduce him , talk about it sensibly , tried to please him in any way so that I may get sex, but he doesn't have any sex drive full stop. Now I just can't pretend any more that everything is fine, because it's not. I used to have a very active sex life before marriage, and for me marriage was "end of pleasure". If I don't want sex, he could be the best husband ever: respectful, kind, faithful, devoted. But how can I ignore my needs?
2007-02-05
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