I'm 18 weeks pregnant and yesterday I was arguing with the dad. We've been together now for 4 years and he treats me great I know he really loves me and the baby, but I'm having a hard time dealing with the fact that he doesn't want to grow up or won't take care of his responsibilities. He hasn't finished school or gotten his GED, or even get a job. He's been telling me for what seems like years that he will but still hasn't happened. We've had this argument many times before and yesterday I was finally fed up. I told him that he can come to the appointments if he chooses but other than that I don't want to see him until he gets some of his things together. I want to be with him but I don't want to keep having the same argument. Should I have got about it a different way, or was it fine how I did. Please be nice because he really is a loving guy just unmotivated.
2007-02-05
06:31:32
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Melissa
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