For months my relationship with my parents was kinda icy and distant. Last week we talked and things got better, though I kept resentful. Yesterday mom called me, was kinda sad. She got to know I have a teacher I like very much and that's a kind of confident, I talk with her when I need advice. Mom said, "so, you fired your mom, I'm no good anymore to give you love and advice". I said this was not the case, but sometimes I need a different opinion of someone who's not directly involved with me. But mom was desolated, cried, said she agreed sometimes she wasn't the mom I wanted but she was doing her best, she even apologized for hurting me sometimes. Though I still resent her, I felt sorry for her, couldn't avoid tears ended up hugging her. Though I'm still resentful, should I forgive her forget and start a new relationship free from resentments? She invited me to have a mother/daughter day this friday. Why should kids forgive parents if they dont forgive us when we make mistakes?
2007-02-05
22:07:36
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