We were having problems that at the time I felt justified the infidelity. So I had an affair with this guy who's liked me for a very long time. The problem was that I just saw our thing as a 1-night stand, but the guy fell in love with me and wanted me to break up with my bf. I told him that wouldn't happen, and that if he couldn't just enjoy the affair while it lasted, then we shouldn't have an affair at all. He said he accepted, so we proceeded. I eventually cut him off bc he has a big mouth, and I felt betrayed that after he claimed to love me he was talking about me behind my back. Finally it got through my little brain how bad cheating is, and I have regretted it dearly. I've left it in the past, but unfortunately the guy hasn't. And he tells everyone in school how much I hurt him. I'm so scared that my bf finds out after things have improved so much. I love him so much, but I'm afraid my enlightenment came a little too late. IF he finds out, should I deny it? The guy has no proof
2007-01-31
11:15:48
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