I have worked in bars for 16 or so years. I have been a Dancer, waitress, bartender, hostess, manager and not in that particular order. I also have MS which has been rearing its ugly head a lot lately. I had to quit working and even going to bars due to either my intolerance for drunks or my alcohol tolerance: it just isn't fun anymore. Since I quit, I have lost all but a couple of my friends. I do understand that bar buddies are not friends but several of these folks I really believed were for good. Well, I have been "T" (bar persona) for so long that with out her I feel boring and even a little unpleasant. I no longer crave gossip, parties, late nights, or large groups of people who know me. My sister says I am becoming a shut in. Is being alone, for once in my life, and enjoying my hobbies so bad? I can absolutely be in my house not answer the phone, the door, or talk to anyone for days. Am I becoming a shut in?
2007-01-31
14:55:25
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majikmachelle
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