I desperately need help. I am such an introverted, shy person, and I have so much trouble opening up to my girlfriend. We have long silences and there doesn't seem to be much passion in our relationship. I love her so much. I love her daughter also. I don't want to break up with her. I want to feel close, but I am constantly second-guessing myself. We are just so boring together. I've talked to her about our situation, and I told her that I don't know how she can be with someone who is such a bump on a log. She says that she doesn't mind, but the fact of the matter is that we just don't have much fun together. She has a disability, so we can't go on long walks, etc like many couples. A lot of times we just sit in front of the TV. I feel close to her, but at the same time, I feel like something is missing. I DO NOT want to break up with her, but at the same time, I want to make her happy. If I can't make her happy, it's unfair to stay with her, right? We've been together for 8 mths.
2007-01-26
04:07:58
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