My wife and I met nearly ten years ago. We have a strong relationship with common interests and mutual respect. She is great looking, passionate in life, and fun to be with. I am decent looking, calm, and generally categorized "the nice guy".
Over the past several years, my wife has increasingly lost interest in our personal time. After some careful probing on my part, she finally revealed that she was less interested because the relationship has lost its newness, and that she often fantasizes of others.
I tried asking her what I can do to improve things. I tried to suggest spicing it up by going to new places, going on dates, or playing different roles. She agrees, but it doesn't seem to help.
I don't know what to do anymore. I fear that as the "nice guy", I simply can't keep the "edge" that she may be looking for. Any suggestions out there?
2007-01-25
23:13:00
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Andras
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Marriage & Divorce