My husband and I have been married for over 2 yrs, together for 6, and we have a 9 mnth old. When we first got together, I found gay porn. I confronted him about it, he said he was just curious, and I accepted it. Then, his ex told me he had had sex with a man when he was in high school. This caused some issues between us, and ever since (for the past 5 years) I have been asking him about it, and he throws it in my face saying that if I believe her over him, then I should just get out and it's not worth it if I don't trust him. we have had trust issues in the past, he has lied many times about small things. Then, the other day, we were having a heart to heart and he confessed that when he was 16, he did have sex with an older man. He said he didn't enjoy it at all, that it felt wrong and dirty, and it was something he was ashamed and embarrassed about it. I can understand that, experimenting is normal at that age, but he has been lying for 5 years! How do Iever trust him again?
2007-01-23
01:34:46
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