2007-01-23 01:34:13 · 16 answers · asked by xoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
probably bc he is uncomfortable sharing it. or he doesnt want you to kno about it
2007-01-23 01:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by xkathiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 18:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it. Some men just feel the urge due to YEARS of doing it and having to keep ti secret as a teenager. As men, we were told that it was 'dirty' or 'naughty' and not something to brag about or be open about. Also, he may not want you to feel that you are pleasing him enough. I doubt that THAT is the case, but he just probably gets the urge at an inopportune time and does not feel like bothering you with it when he can take care of the job himself.
2007-01-23 01:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by doctor_76 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you don't make him feel comfortable.
3 nights ago, I wasn't in the "mood". My new live in bf of only 3 weeks had bought all kinds of toys! I said well try them out yourself! He said, I never have done that before with someone just sitting there watching...............I "lied" and said, oh hell, all my ex hubby's use too.............so.......he did I think it turned him on to be stareing at me why he did it and tried a couple of the toys too. Well, I take that back.............I think ANYTHING or ANYONE turns this horn dawg on!!!
2007-01-23 02:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks you will be angry with him. I hide things from my wife too, I don't want to but I am not always sure she will understand. Would you be ok with it if he did it while you were around? Would you want to watch?
2007-01-23 01:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A very interesting question. I think he would like to make love more often to you, but does not feel that you are on the same page. Let him know that you love him unconditionally. It is amazing to masterbate when your partner is aware that you are doing it. You dont have to acknowledge that you are aware that he is doing it . . . . HE KNOWS YOU KNOW.
2007-01-23 01:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know? Do you show him YOUR masturbation?
He must have something private which is harmless!
If you want him to stop masturbating, practice more sex with him!
2007-01-23 01:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That by its very nature is a private exercise....why would he not hide it?
2007-01-23 01:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you havn't made him feel comforable enough to do it with you. you need to let him know that it is nothing he has to hide that you enjoy being involved
2007-01-23 01:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.....but why don't you masturbate in front of him...maybe that will let him know that it is ok for him to do it too......
2007-01-23 01:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's thinking about other women when he does it and he's ashamed to do it in front of you.
2007-01-23 01:47:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋