I know the answer but am unable to act.I am in a long term rely.,and love her,immensely, but not romanticly anymore. She has not been very sexual towards me at all in at least a year (conservative). I love sex and the female form so that major part of the rely. has made me want be out there single again. She really could take or leave sex and probably would prefer to leave it (at least indifferent). We were much more physical before and in retrospect that was just for me.I feel like we are room mates now. We have been together almost ten years, and she is definitely my best friend.I have hinted that we are growing apart and I want to be single, but she freaks.I almost want to martyr myself to avoid hurting her,but I wont. I want out, and hopefully remain friends.I just know she will be a wreck,and I hate the thought.But my life is the only one I get.I wish there was an easy way. I daydreamed about hiring a hot guy to get her to cheat, but neither of us is that type.Help?
2007-01-23
02:10:46
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Mike Oxard
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