I met her a few years ago, planning to get married soon. She is all I've dreamt of and I simply love her to bits. She is older than me by 7 yrs (she's 31). In the beggining I didn't think to much of her past, but asking about it and her not telling me too much made me dig deeper and deeper till I hurt her by doing so. I wanna stop that, thinking of her past mistakes and guys she dated etc. She even changed a lot, she is a pure Christian now, more of a reason 4 me to forget about her past...but I still cannot do that. I prayed about it, I "punished" myself 4 it in ways coz I don't want to hurt her by bringing it up again I think I've tried everything...Any of U guys/gals gone thru this? Will I ever be able to overcome these things or will it haunt me 4 ever? It really drives me to despair sometimes and I just feel like climbing the walls :( Why me?? Why does this happen ? WTF is wrong w/ me ? The thing that will probly freak U out about me even more is that we were both virgins when we met. I kno about "technical virginity" etc...but I don't think it's her case. Her problems were more about just promiscous behaviour and bad morals....I kno U'll consider me a freak....maybe I am....the thing is I WANT to put everything behind where it belongs...Just HOW to do that
2007-01-22
03:57:11
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Ella F
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Marriage & Divorce