it soo happens that all my friends are really attractive women, there ALL modeLs been in music video's ..model for magazines..
the other day at a get together i brought the new guy i am dating..and they always complain
"HOW come i always get the HOTT guys when they are the models, and they should get the hott guys"
i do admit eversince after highschool all the guys i have dated happen to be gorgues..but i got them with my bubbly sweet personality..and i pretty cute too..but just not as pretty as them..
should i be offended that they wonder why i always get the hott guys? just because they are models they should get the guy?
2007-01-22 03:56:52 · 35 answers · asked by moonstar 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I ALMOST understood your question. Try rephrasing it in English next time.
2007-01-22 03:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Don't be offended.
Just understand that their questioning your ability to get the hot guys is a symptom of their shallow view of the world.
They have not had to develop sweet personalities, or worry about how they may hurt others, because they have always gotten by on their appearances alone.
You are fortunate to have developed a wonderful personality to go along with your cute looks. You know personality won't fade, but their beauty will, and they will be first in line for plastic surgery by the age of 30.
2007-01-22 04:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Vivian D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! you should be offended. It's not what's on the outside that counts, it's what's inside. The same goes for the gorgeous guys you are dating. They may be nice to look at but are they really nice guys? Do looks really matter in the broad scheme of things? Wouldn't you rather have a decent looking guy who treats you well than a gorgeous guy that treats you like crap? Just a little something to think about. When you're older and married like me, you'll be better able to see what's important.
2007-01-22 04:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like you doubt your own self worth, and whether you deserve to have a good looking guy like you. You don't need a Q&A or your friends to tell you that you're attractive or worthy, you need to believe it yourself. As for being offended, the only thing that you should consider offensive, is if a guy only likes your for your looks and sees nothing else of any value. Ask all the models who have married and divorced (some many, many times), if looks are enough to sustain a lasting relationship.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 04:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lesley V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're obviously jealous. Don't be offended, because while they're being bitchy about it, they really are complimenting the fact that you pull nothing but hot men. You can always laugh and say "because they like beauty inside AND outside" or "because you have no ***, that's why" or "because you look good on a page and I look good everywhere else." But it's not really necessary. They know you've got something they don't have. But I wonder why you'd be friends with such catty women on the first place?
2007-01-25 08:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because the really pretty, hot women tend to be less educated and really conceited. Men hate that. (At least I do. I don't care if you are the supermodel of the world with perfect hair, butt and boobs. If you can't hold an intellectual, stimulating conversation, I've no interest.)
The average girls out there are the best. Less self centered, less time in the bathroom preening, more educated, etc.
2007-01-22 04:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, right or wrong? I'd sure as heck be offended. At first. Then, I'd remeber that being offended brings on resentment, resentment brings anger, unresolved anger brings bitterness, and bitterness not to mention the wrinkles it can leave you with, leaves you lonely. SOOOOOO, hell no, dont be offended, just realize that beauty is only skin deep, and true beauty, you just can't hide.
Way to go on getting the hotties....The models can't have everything ya know :) just kidding.
2007-01-22 04:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Taking offense is stupid. The fact that they actually made that comment out loud tells you how shallow they are. Beauty is skin deep but ugliness (especially shallow, vain) goes clear to the bone. These girls' looks won't last forever....enjoy your life and smile sweetly saying " I wish I knew....." next time they make that comment.
btw: i know a lot of men who say most models are not that beautiful...they have certain things that are needed for fashion industry--height, etc.
2007-01-22 04:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Chef Susy--Cookin it up! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get that too sometimes...I used to be offended by it but then realized that they are saying that out of their own insecurities. You are cute and have the confidence to rely on the combination of your looks and personality and not just your looks alone. Maybe they can't get the guys because they don't have enough confidence in their personalities. Looks will only get you so far....
2007-01-22 04:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by PaganPoetess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think that being beautiful entitles them to the first pick and to get what they want.
Problem is that attitude is a big turn off.
I don't think its that your friends are attractive its that they are part of the group that makes the entitlement conclusion because of their beauty. Not all women are like that - whether beautiful or not.
I'd just pity their thinking and hope they grow out of it.
2007-01-22 06:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would consider that they are being extremely SHALLOW... Jealousy is rampant in the modeling world. Besides, just because a guy is "gorgeous", doesn't mean he is good boyfriend material. I mean, really,
PRETTY IS AS PRETTY DOES.
2007-01-22 04:02:26 · answer #11 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋