For my whole life helping people has always been something I've done. I love to do it, it is very important to me and I firmly believe in it. The thing is, I never help myself. If I'm really really down, I don't seek any help...but if someone I think just might be, I am all over it. I help my friends achieve things that will make them happy but don't do it for myself. I bend over backwards for other people, people I don't even know and I think its a great thing...but sometimes I need help too, and I never get any (and refuse to ask). What do I need to do to learn to help myself? I just don't get it...sometimes the only that that motivates me is it I convince myself that benefiting me will benefit someone else. Why do I care about how other people are, but not myself?
2007-01-22
15:45:58
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fslcaptain737
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Psychology