my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years now. since we were 16, we are both in college and doing very well academically, socially and all that. we are both really happy with our relationship and plan to have a future together. recently, a friend of ours joined the marines and it has triggered something for my boyfriend to want to do the same. he's mentioned it before but never seriously until now. i would never tell him to not do something because of me and i would support him in any decision he made. however, i cannot promise to stay with him if he had to leave and i really really really dislike this idea. he has asked for my opinion as we do have a lot of time and emotion invested in each other. we've done long distance before and it was so hard. i dont think i could handle doing it again. and i dont want to be a military wife. also, is it wrong for me to want him to not do this? i dont want to tell him not to, i just want him to realize it himself.
2007-01-21
19:45:14
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