he is about to come here in october, we planned that before. now my sched has been so bad that i cant get online to see him...he always leaves me messages when im offline. but last night we fought over my display picture, it was my pic and he told me not to put it even before. now he said he needs time to think, coz this past few months he's been not himself...
will i consider that as a simple goodbye from him???...i love him very much...
2007-01-21 19:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by deegee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah !but i am there !!!!
2007-01-21 22:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow how old are u? i think i might know how u feel but really online relationships and long distance relationships don't usualy work out .....for me when i tell them i need more time it usually mean i want out ....so do him a favor and dump him once u dump him u will feel much happier and beside u don't know him in person so he could be this ugly creep could be both physically ugly or mentally unstable so in the end its safer if u dump him and pick someone who is close to u and not online ..... people who including myself we only go online to chat and sometimes flirt with ppl so half of the time we don't really mean what we say .......so u might be true about your feelings but they could be just toying with u..... u seem like a nice girl move on dump him and beside he sound kinda scary to me cuz guys who leave offline messeges could be kinda desperate and desperate guys are always needy so that is not good....they will burden u down so much .....
dump and move on and be happy
i am sure lots of guys will want to be ur bf
good luck
2007-01-21 20:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes prolly married.Also he is an online bf how could he need more time if you only talk online?How can you love him when may not even be what you think he is?Beware alot of people on the net looking to date are fake way fake.If they were so real they wouldn't need the net to meet there match!
2007-01-21 19:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I need space" is Guy Speak for "I'm too much of a wuss to just tell you it's over. I hope that if I act flaky enough for a long enough time, you'll just dump my *** so I don't have to feel bad about dumping you and hurting your feelings."
Do this fellow a favor and just dump him. He sounds like he's all but begging you to just cut him loose.
2007-01-21 19:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Guernica 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't believe in the studpid thought that all of us need space... Well, if you really love him, and he really loves you, you can never want anything more in this world, even if it has to be your own personal space...
2007-01-21 19:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by xander_champ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your ONLINE boyfriend needs space? wow, you must be one needy broad to smother someone over the internet.
2007-01-21 19:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nikan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has more baggage than an airport. Dump him.
2007-01-21 19:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by ttfiend2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋