Okay, I have an older brother who just turned 31 yesterday (I will be 27 in February), and I haven't talked to him in over 3 years. The last time anyone (other than me) in my family talked to him was over 5 years ago. Considering his birthday was yesterday, I've been thinking about him quite a bit. I don't even know if he's alive, married, has children or anything. I want to try to locate him and talk to him just to see how he's doing, but I'm not sure if I should. I'm not sure why he stopped talking to our family, I just know that he hurt our mother badly. She won't even mention him on holidays or anything. She considers me as her only son these days. He was physically, emotionally, and mentally abusive towards me until I was 17, but I've forgiven him for it. I also know that depression runs in my family and that all the abuse might be a byproduct of the condition.
Do you think that I should try to contact him? And if so, how would I go about finding him?
2007-01-16
20:11:11
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