I AM 22 MY WIFE IS 18-AND WE HAVE A 8 MONTH CHILD.BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED I CHEATED ON HER WITH A WOMAN.MONTHS LATER I TOLD HER AND SHE WENT OUT AND HAD SEX WITH MY FRIEND AND TOLD ME AFTER WE GOT MARRIED.I FORGAVE HER BECAUSE I FELT SHE WAS ONLY BEING VENGEFUL-BUT THREE MONTHS AFTER WE GOT MARRIED SHE HAD AN AFFAIR WITH TWO EMPLOYEE'S AT HER JOB.SHE CLAIMED EVER SINCE I CHEATED ON HER IT BROKE HER HEART-WHICH COULD BE TRUE.BUT, NOW I PUT THINGS BEHIND ME AND FORGAVE HER FOR THAT-BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE HER AND I WANT IT TO WORK.THE PROBLEM IS I DON'T TRUST HER-LITERALLY I DON'T TRUST HER, AND I AM NOT HAPPY WITH HER-MY ONLY DESIRE IS TO BE WITH MY CHILD-BUT THE PROBLEM WITH THAT IS, MY WIFE LIVES WITH HER MOTHER AND I LIVE WITH MINE-WE ONCE LIVED TOGETHER BUT SHE BLEW THAT!!!! WHAT DO I DO, WHEN I AM LIVING IN A STATE THAT I DON;T WANT TO BE IN, I AM IN A MARRIAGE THAT IS UNHEALTHY, AND IF I LEAVE THE STATE I AM GONNA FEEL GUILTY FOR LEAVING MY DAUGHTER BEHIND?THIS IS STRESSFUL & CONFUSIN
2007-01-12
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