On answering a recent question of how many times a week I have sex with my husband I said that we try and put some time aside twice a week to get some alone time. This does not generally mean sex but it is guaranteed mom and dad alone time,occasionally leading to sex or saucy foreplay. I credit this decision on both our parts, for the reason we have such a healthy and stimulating relationship with7kids and 15yrs of marriage.
With 7kids finding that kind of time is almost impossible without MAKING the time. Our kids living at home are 14,12,5,3&17months.
Is it bad that we put them aside twice/week to make some time for ourselves. My husband is a stay at home dad so we generally have all the kids in bed w/lights out by 8 o clock at least one night during the week and at the weekend the older 2 are usually with friends so we get the younger three in bed by half 7 which is normal for them anyway.
We both spend a lot of time with our kids in general,is this unfair?
2007-01-10
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