She was 132 lbs (5 "2')/26 yrs, 4.5 years ago when we got married.During dating,she told me that she took care of diet / exercise .That was one reason for my decision to marry her.I am very disciplined and careful about my health. She was diagnosed with PCOS 2 years ago after reaching 154 lbs.The first 3.5 years I supported her by doing physical activies that she liked, took her to dancing/walks , subscribed to various health mags, stopped eating foods that were bad for her PCOS,gave incentives(hawaii trip) if she set and met her own weight goals etc.
By last year she was 145 lbs and we were arguing about her need to be disciplined so that we can consider pregnancy. We started seeing a marital counselor who asked me to take the issue off the table.My wife always claimed that I obsess about her weight and that she can manage it on her own.
Now she is 156 lbs with no gym/eats junk food in all meals. Counselor tells me to see if I can accept her like this else leave.
What should I do
2007-01-03
16:10:54
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