A while back I met a girl online. Eventually we became good friends and would talk everyday. We found that we have many of the same interests. I was interested in going out with her, but never said anything. Several months passed and over this time we slowly stopped talking to each other. I have tried emailing her, but she has not responded to my emails. Should I keep trying or just let it go?
2007-01-03 16:09:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It strikes me as strange that in this forum a lot of the guys write in with what sounds like reasonable stories about women they like and have good intentions about. On the other hand you get heaps of stories from the ladies about how the jerks in their lives treat them like crap. Maybe the girls should show some better judgement and give blokes like you a fair chance. Keep trying.
2007-01-03 16:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Internet relationships never really result in anything good. I've been in a few, but you never really know what the person is like.
You can put on any sort of a facade, you can be anyone you want to be online. It's better to meet someone tangible. Though online relationships are good for socializing practice, etc. you never really get a feel for the real thing.
You should let it go and try to find someone closer. Always remember that people are DIFFERENT online. So who you think you like, really might not be as she depicts herself.
It's hard to let go, but eventually you will find someone and realize that you were right in making your decision.
2007-01-03 16:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Guy, but I think she has lost interest in you. Not that you've done anything wrong(going by what you've told), but the shear fact that there are so many others out there that it is hard to keep a persons interests. She's probably talking to someone else now and will do the same to them. No worries. Just let it go and chat with others. It's hard not to but try not to get to involved with the ppl you chat with on-line. I did that and practically fell for every girl I spoke with ..why because they spoke with me that's why. Take it for what it is ... the net. You'll find someone else to chat with but try not to get TOO into her k .
Good Luck!
2007-01-03 16:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by gord's360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should give up on anything you really want until you are very sure that there is no chance of success.
As long as you are not threatening or abusive - keep writing until you yourself get bored, or lose interest.
She may be unable to answer your mails for a very good reason - so - why not drop her a line every so often, just staying friendly and not too intense.
Even if she DID decide not to answer you again - at least your mails could lighten her day and maybe one day she might feel like responding.
There's nothing to lose!
2007-01-03 16:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Biker B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she does not want to talk to you. She may have found a boyfriend or just lost interest. Either way, if she is not responding, she is not interested. Don't waste your time on her. Move on and find someone new and better. Good luck.
2007-01-03 16:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by whowhat? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go because you havn't seen this person in person before. IF she doesn't respond to your emails, it means she doesn't want to talk to you or that she changed emails. You should move on because it doesn't seem like anything will change and your just giving yourself false hopes.
2007-01-03 16:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by someon09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. If she wanted to she would have responded by now. Maybe she will contact you soon, but I would not spend too much time on it.
2007-01-03 16:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well either she has forgotten about you dint take you serious or doesnt have internet. if she hasnt answered well then loud and clear is your answer. everyone on line has had similar experiences. some people even meet thru on line meetings but if she hasnt responded perhaps she is gone.. you shouldve got a phone number..
2007-01-03 16:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try once more and let her know that you would really like to talk with her again.....but also tell her that if you don't hear back for her in a few days, that you won't bother her again.....at some point you have to give up...good luck
2007-01-03 16:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go,she probably found someone else to talk too....
2007-01-03 16:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋