If you were married for 18 years to a man, had a wonderful marriage and supported him through layoffs, job moves and had a daughter.
He deployed and began an affair. He took leave and went to see the girl before coming home. When I found out, he broke things off with her. They ended up talking again and he asked me for a divorce.
When he returned, he went back and forth between us. Thanksgiving with her, Christmas at home, New years with her. He listened to me cry for hours on the phone when he was with her.
Our daughter ended up cutting herself, and he still didn't let the woman go. He said he tried to, but he couldn't.
This has been going on for over a year. He has lied about talking to the girl, but I found emails from her.
I finally kicked him out but we are still working on our marriage. He acts suspicious at times, and I think the other girl is still in the picture. What is wrong with me? With him? With us? Why are we fighting so hard?
2007-01-01
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Marriage & Divorce