Okay...responses are very broad...so let me add more of the situation. She doesn't want to leave him because she's scared of three things. 1) he's the type to use the "kill myself or else". We think, but if not then he will be the one who shows up at her home, her work, and then on to my work. We work together, not same departments, but same employer. 2) How does she explain to her family how a friend of hers and her husbands is her new love? She's scared they may disown her as they are an overly-strict church family. I don't wann give an ultimatum becuase I know how a divorce works...but I also want to be a tad bit selfish..How do I bring it up about taking the next step in getting the ball rolling from her end without the ultimatum fell??
2006-12-26
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