I am a gay man who had recently left a relationship of 8 years. There was no abuse but there were basic foundational differences (I'm out, he's not; I want to live together, he does not; religious differences, i needed to build community/ meet gay friends; etc...). After 6 weeks away from him I still feel like I'm dying... I miss him terribly, can't sleep or eat, but vowed not to go back. He's now contacted me and shown that without me around he's found the value of these things: he's come out to some friends, started to build community, and wants me to move into his home. I want to trust that he's done these things for himself, not me, and really believes in them. I also want to trust that I don't want him back out of jealousy over his new friends, etc... but I can't seem to get any clear thoughts. Help?!
2006-12-23
01:16:50
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