I'm 38 , she's 37 and we've had our very close friendship for the past 13 years. I happen to love her vey very much , She's number one issue in my life . I've invested an enormous amount of time & effort and feelings in her. My friend has problems connecting with people , she's a very demanding & difficult person to deal with. This has left her with very few friends & far-between & unsuccessful relationships.
As of lately , I've mustered enough courage to tell her about my feelings. We've had a very long discussion about it. The conclusion is ; even though she thinks very highly of me as a friend & as a person ,she is unable to make the transition in her mind from the 'Friend" to "lover".She thinks this transition is almost impossible.I wasn't really convinced , but Ok.Our friendship continued for a month or two.Then I reopened the love talk and she said nothing has changed.
Do I stand a chance with her ? If yes..how ? If not ...I weep ....:-(
2006-12-23
05:21:20
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