Maybe it's me but I get increasingly frustrated when my husband, who is often spoiling for a fight and won't accept an apology. I'm not perfect I'm human and like the rest of us I can occassionally be at worst thoughtless but usually just a bit dippy or forgetful. A typical example would be if he asked me to pick up something from a shop on my way home from work, if I forget..... (I'm at that age when I can forget why I walked into a room,I put newspapers in the freezer and instantly forget someone's name after an introduction) anyway.... if I forget, I say I'm sorry, he imediately retaliates with 'No you're not... you always say that, you're not sorry at all you just can't be bothered..... rant ,rant .rant,' this is just a mild example... I can't win. It seems he is not happy unless he is painting the worst possible picture of me. If I believe him I must me the most thoughtless calculating and manipulative ***** ever.... I really don't think I am, and If I am, why does he stay?
2006-12-17
02:45:01
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Ellie G
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Marriage & Divorce