What is it with people and marriage anyway? I mean, what part of the vows seem to not be plain?
Where does it say that you marry for happiness or that you have a RIGHT to be happy in or out of marriage? Isnt happiness something that you have a hand in making or destroying by what you do or fail to do too?
Where is the part of divorce is okay if you changed your mind or dont feel it anymore? Did I miss something? I thought that divorce was only if you are cheated on and you didnt basically force them to cheat on you.
Why is it okay to change your mind or lose the feeling and have that mean something? If you suddenly dont like your house or car or contract obligations, you dont get to just change those. So why do so many think they can in marriage?
Lastly, if you lose that feeling or give up, why should you not have to pay your spouse for not honoring the commitment you made and wasting their time, efforts, feelings, etc?
Am I the only one who thinks this way anymore
2006-12-17
02:40:24
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Mr. JW
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Marriage & Divorce