Is it right for younger people NOT looking directly in the eyes of elders out of respect?

Answer 1

It depends on the culture, they say. I am a teacher and have read in books that some Asian cultures and some Hispanic cultures, the parents tell their children not to look into an elders eyes.
As a teacher, I would like to know that the students are listening and actively participating in discussion and daily activities. If a student is not looking at me when spoken to, I would automatically think that he is looking in his desk or reading something on his desk.
I am getting 3rd generation immigrant students now, and this has not been a problem in my classroom.

Maybe recently immigrated students from these cultures will portray these behaviors. In these cases, I would have a conference with the parent to see if this is part of their culture. I would express my concern to see if they can work with me to help the student assimilate to looking at any person when spoken to.
This will be a RIGHT OF PASSAGE- young people NEED to have good eye contact so they can be successful in presenting, interviewing and job seeking THEY ARE OUR FUTURE.

Answer 2

No, it IS respectful for younger people to look elders in the eye. it shoes that they are respecting you, and listening to you, rather than paying attention to something else while you talk.

Answer 3

yes, it is correct for the younger generation to show respect to their elders. the way you describe, however, is more an asian custom rather than a western one. but the key is respect, no matter how it is shown.

Answer 4

they can do what they want, u ageist