My hubby had an affair. I know all about it. Whats done is done, it cant be changed, and we are trying to move on towards the future. He has shown remorse, he cried, guilt, embarassement, all the "right things". But heres where i'm scared. IF he felt so guilty and so sorry, would this affair really lasted 6 months? This was not going out one night and getting drunk and making a mistake. This was an everday, planned, on the phone, event. I want to make it work, only cuz i am guilty of a one night mistake years ago, which he knows, and has forgiven me. But my fear is this: if he didnt feel truely guilty and isnt truely sorry, this WILL happen again. How can you talk to your wife on the phone, when your GF is there, tell your wife u love her before u hang up, knowing damn well you just got done with your GF or getting ready to do her? Does any man out there have an explanation of what goes through your head. Is it possible to do all that and still feel guilty & love ur wife?
2006-12-16
00:34:26
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