I understand it is human nature to love and want to be loved. But I think it goes farther then that. I think we feel our lives will not be complete if we don't love and or marry by a certain time or age. This pressure puts so many people into relationships that are not good for them. Why can't we just enjoy life, our personal lives and enjoy time spent with a lover or a friend and not expect it to turn into a relationship? I have made that mistake twice in my life and I still can't understand why I feel the need to make every encounter a relationship. Just by reading some of the question on here, "I love this guy/girl and I don't know how to tell them, what do I do? "I am suffering because the girl/guy I like doesn't like me back?" "He hasn't asked me to marry him yet, should I keep waiting?"
The list goes on and on. The pain is real, I can hear it in every question as I too have felt that pain. Yet we do it all over again.
2006-12-11
14:21:23
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megabites42
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Singles & Dating