I need help, I cant get over my x husband. I cant move on because i compare everyone i date to him. He had so many good qualities that i feel no one can measure up to however, he was an abusive alcohlic. i just cant mentally erase the good. My x husband was actually my first boyfriend. i met him at 17. he was 22. we met at a party were everyone, including him, was drinking. he liked me because i was the only one that didnt drink, in other words, because i was so innocent and also we were very attracted to each other. i was young and dumb and immediately innfatuated. I lost my virginity to him, became completely attached and we got married. After we had a baby, he got borred and restless, went back to the bars and back to his single friends. We got a divorce after repeated abuse and neglect. he had to sides; when he was sober he was the sweetest person in the world. i need help moving on. any suggestions. i don't know why this is so hard for me...
2006-12-03
17:50:37
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bluestar
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Marriage & Divorce