We've been together for nearly 3 years. I am currently 22 and he is 34. I feel like we are growing apart because of our pride, we spend increasing amounts of time apart. I know he loves me, and I deeply love him, we want a life together and I am currently 37 wks pregnant with our planned baby. He makes it very difficult for me to be happy with him, he is just naturally a negative type of person, very judgmental, and pretty much arrogant and fairly self centred. I will admit that I am growing increasingly negative as well, its hard not to, and I end up critising him! I some times feel as tho the only reason he's with me is because I am another possecion to him-he's materialistic-as I am not bad looking and can hold intelligent conversations with the 'type' of people he likes to be around. (snobs) lately we are in a habit of basicly ignoring each other, acting as if we dont care, rarely have sex, and show minimal affection, we are becomeing competitive toward each other! ...HELP?!?!
2006-12-03
18:05:30
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Marriage & Divorce