As in other recent posts on this subject; I am struggling with my wife's decision to deny me having bio kids. I know it’s selfish, but I want blood children. There are thousands of needy children, the world is over-populated, I will love my adopted children and wonder how I lived without them… but part of me craves my own. I look at pics of my gdprents, my gt-gdprents & my whole family tree, what they have done, how they worked hard for our family and I am so proud that I came from them. I love that I hv the same curly hair as my uncles and my dad, I love that my aunt and I are both so pathetically sentimental, I love that I am stubborn like my dad and that my mom and I dance jigs in the kitchen while the rest of the family stares at us. There is something about being related in blood and finding those roots, connections!
Is this a primitive survival instinct? Should I just get over it? I know adopting children will be a beautiful, rewarding, life-changing event, but i can't kick this.
2006-11-22
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