I have come to the realization that my boyfriend watches porn relatively often, and this makes me uncomfortable in a lot of ways. Its not good for my self-esteem, and makes me feel I'm not good enough for him, even though he's reassured me over and over that I'm great, he loves me, and it has nothing to do with me... We have a good sex life, and he is a great guy otherwise, so its a tough position for me to be in, especially because we've been together over 5 years so I have a lot invested in this relationship. I was wondering if some people who have dealt with a similar situation could give me some advice. How do you "get over" him watching porn? How do you deal with it mentally and emotionally by not letting it bother you? How do you put up with it when you don't like it- personally or for society? I'm certainly not uptight or a prude, but I just don't get it, what's so great about porn??? Please, don't suggest I try to get him to watch it with me, because he doesn't want to!
2006-11-20
08:40:00
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