ok here is the situation...my neighbor who lives in the apt building next to me, we became friends over the summer cause our kids are the around the same age so we hung out quite a bit so the kids could play.
then she began calling sometimes up to 3 times a day and it was getting a little annoying so i stopped calling her back so i could have a break. Well a couple months go by and she runs into my bf in the parking lot and asked him if i was mad at her and said to him "well ive been talking to ppl and they think she isnt talking to me cause she thinks im after you". I thought that was the funniest thing i had heard. Well i wrote her off as crazy and let it go. Then she called a couple weeks later w' some guilt trip voicemail on how the kids should play....so my bf wrote her # down.
Then he began calling her up everytime she called us. She even wanted us over for T-day.
He never took interest in hanging out during the summer w' us and now he is all about it.Im 8 months pregnant btw
2006-11-20 08:39:49 · 11 answers · asked by clubsandra 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
also the other night i was laying down and when i woke up my bedroom door was shut while i heard him talking on the phone. the next day i asked why my door was shut (cause it never is shut), and he said "oh i was cleaning and didnt wanna wake you up with all the noise" so i was suspicious about that. she calls everyday now and he is quick to answer the phone, or if we miss her calls he calls her back right away and they chum it up on the phone for quite sometime. I'm not a jealous person and i havent questioned him on cheating ever before but with me being 8 months pregnant with our 2nd kid it might just be my hormones making me worry more or something...hence why im asking what you all think
2006-11-20 08:40:03 · update #1
I'm pregnant too so I might be just as crazy as you :) but I would be suspicious too. You need to tell him that it's bothering you and you don't see why he's taken a sudden interest in being this chick's friend. He needs to stop talking to her if only for your peace of mind becuase being pregnant is emotionally draining enough and every man should know that OF COURSE we will overreact about ridiculous things when we're pregnant so he should just stop talking to her no questions asked. Being pregnant gives us a "free pass" to act a little nutty becuase we can't help it and I'm sure he will understand even if he does think it's silly.
2006-11-20 08:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh....guys aren't usually prone to phone conversations to begin with so it is a little suspicious. He may just be enjoying the idea of some other woman finding him attractive but it sounds like he is overdoing it...I mean there is a difference between a guy waiting on the longer line in the grocery store because that particular check out girl likes to flirt with him (happened on King of Queens-and we all know Doug loves Carrey) and.....running to the phone like a teenage girl when this chick calls.....Yeah I don't like this.
2006-11-20 08:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh seems straings.. The human body has a stupid stress thing that makes us think something is goin on. Kinda like me. My GF and i have been together for about almore 3 1/2 years. She used to talk to guys on the internet. one day i found out they were sending stuff to eatch other and i found a letter that she never sent him because i took it it said in her writing " I want to move upt here and **** your brains out and marry if that other girl hasn't already" I talk to her about that and she just told me that there just freinds and they joke around like that all the time. (Personaly i dont believe her + she has lied to me face ALOT) mmm.... he answers the phone really quick. Maybe he gets the phone so its not bugging u because he knows it annoys u? Or they have a few things in commen. IM not sure but us guys are stupid. I have been hitting on other girls even tho i still have mine its because im making sure the girl i have is the one that i wana spend the rest of my life with. + my GF dont do anything so she got really borring im looking for some excitment. I been ignoring her and now not wanting to kiss her anymore... Im not sure but i wound have to be there to see his acitivity and the way he acts towored u.
2006-11-20 08:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Xaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm sounds funny to me to. Because your 8 months pregnant your probably way more aware of the whole sitatuation then he is. But that does not give him the right to act differently. Honestly you should talk to him about it. Dont get mad though, just talk calmy and sweet that way to avoid an argument. you dont want to be fighting and yelling with him.. ya'll should be being sweet and geting ready for your new baby!
2006-11-20 08:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this is a really hard question to answer. I don't want to scare you but this sounds not good, darlin. Your neighbour sounds not crazy but a real ho, if you know what I mean? I would confront your husband and see what's going on. If it was me I'd toss him out.
I'm sorry to be so blunt, but if he truly loved you he would be totally faithful and he's not. Good luck, love.
I hope I could be of some help.
2006-11-20 08:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be what I call Pregnancy Paranoia but it does sound fishy. If you are really concerned the best thing to do is to confront him with it but not in an accusatory way it might put him on edge then.
2006-11-20 08:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..thats a tuff one well its maybe both ....maybe it is ur hormones...and maybe the reason he is talking to her is because he is getting attention from her that ur not giving him...but he didnt need to lie...sit down and have a nice chat with him about all of it and apologize for being moody and hormonial and see what happens..
2006-11-20 08:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your concerns. you owe to both of yourselves to get this out in the open and resolved. Good luck and congrats on the new baby!
2006-11-20 08:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by QueenSupreme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you just tell him the time he is spending with her and calling her is making you uncomfortable. If he persists.. then you have issues.
2006-11-20 08:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably your hormones but I don't like the sound of it either
2006-11-20 08:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋