Hey. My boyfriend and I are having some serius problems. I get tired of peopel keep telling me that he's cheating or searching outside of our relationship. However whenever i bring this to his attention he claims that I'm the only one he's with. We've been together on and off for a year now. And i truly do love him. I know i have made mistakes in our relationship and now more than anything I'm trying to make things right. But its just so hard when we barely talk and I keep hearing all these things from people. He claims another problem is that I won't give my virginity to him. I want to so badly but I feel bad enough degrading myself just by the way i get treated and i told him that i wont give that to him UNTIL we have a stable relationship. But I've tried everything I'm doing all I can and it just doesn't seem good enough. I really want to be with this man. WE break up and get back together. I don't know what keeps drawing us back but i really just want to know what shoudl i do
2006-11-20 08:39:57 · 3 answers · asked by Tia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
baby girl, let's think about this for a minute, he wants you to give it up. and that's what he's after in this relationship. you'd told him straight out about how you operate, and he gives you a hissy fits. come on now, can't you see. if he respect you, then he should also respect your wishes. if he's not willing to wait or honor your wish, then baby girl, there is no point trying to make this work. don't give in, he'll have what he wanted and leave you broken hearted.
2006-11-20 09:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should stick to not giving up your "v" and tell him if that is the only problem he has then he should move on because you are not ready to take that step. Now if there is other problems besides what was mentioned then sit down with him and talk things out, If you and are not able to do this now, How will you and him ever be able to make it as a couple. I hope I was some help, by the way I am a guy, just so you know. Good luck.
2006-11-20 16:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok youre like what...12 or so? sounds like it anyway. You need this fool like a fish needs a bicycle. You should drop all this idiocy, concentrate on getting thru grammer school, then high school, then on living a useful life.
2006-11-20 16:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋